Thursday, July 13, 2017

Marrying Mormon Miles


John Henry William Miles kept two families.

My great-grandfather George Edmond Miles was born in 1866 in a London slum, the son of an unmarried woman named Jane Mary Wyatt. 

His natural father, John Henry William Miles, was the proprietor of a pub called the Red Lion. The pub now carries some fame; it is thought to have been in the Miles family pub that eleven-year-old Charles Dickens asked for his first pint of ale and with it received a kiss from the proprietress, an incident he would immortalize in David Copperfield. 

John Henry William Miles,
proprietor of the Red Lion Pub

Eliza Horne Miles, his unhappy wife
Managing a successful pub located between 10 Downing Street and the Houses of Parliament allowed John to maintain two families, and ensured that his legitimate children were well educated and his illegitimate ones housed and clothed. George Edmond was one of a set of twins who, along with elder siblings Henry and Edith, made up the illegitimate side of John's family. Their existence was kept completely secret to the businessman's legal family, but his wife Eliza suspected his double life. Their arguments were fierce, and she left her husband when their eldest was fifteen years old.

The eldest legitimate Miles son was named John Horne Miles. John was a headstrong boy with little respect for either authority or family; from an early age the boy had plagued his mother and defied his father, and was blamed in part for his mother’s discontent. John Horne had his own ideas about how his life would proceed.

John Horne Miles, fiercely independent
At the age of twelve young John had fallen in love with his second cousin, a beautiful thirteen-year-old girl named Caroline Horne Maile Owen. Caroline, who had been born to parents named Maile but raised by relatives named Owen, was a beautiful girl with fair hair and a round, sweet face. Though they were both neighbors and cousins, the difference in social station between John, a tavern-owner's son, and Caroline, the only adopted daughter of a High Constable, was great. Nevertheless as the years went on she came to eagerly return his youthful affection and the two became secretly engaged. Certain that neither his parents nor hers would have approved the match, they were forced to hide their promise to one another until John gained his independence.

Caroline Horne Maile Owen,
beloved of John Horne Miles
It was possibly in consequence of this frustrated romance that John decided at the age of sixteen to defy his father's wishes and sign himself into a 3-year indenture as a merchant seaman. John H.W. Miles was heartbroken by his son's choice. The old Red Lion had been in Miles' hands for generations, but his eldest son was determined to have nothing to do with it. After a period of fruitless opposition during which neither father nor son would bend, they parted on bad terms.

John, along with one of his best friends, Ebenezer DeFriez, set out to sea in 1870. Early in the voyage John was forced to admit what those around him already likely knew, which was that John Horne Miles and hard work were a poor match. He used his first shore leave to return home and beg his father to pay off the indenture early -- he would become a teacher, a writer, an intellectual, anything but a sailor! The older man, however, could not be moved, and his refusal to aid John in this only deepened the chasm between them.

Ebenezer DeFriez,
friend of John Horne Miles
After nearly three years at sea John and Ebenezer arrived in Sydney, Australia, when their ship, the SS England, put into port long enough for the two to explore the bustling city. While wandering the streets together a strong, pleasing voice reached their ears and they found themselves listening with fascination to a young man preaching a new and strange gospel. They left the scene with a Book of Mormon in their possession and the lingering notes of the missionary's words in their ears. Back aboard ship John sat down to read it while Ebenezer took his shift at guard duty; by the time Ebenezer returned, John was persuaded by the new gospel. Less than a month later both had been baptized by missionaries of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints in Sydney.

The SS England, aboard which John and Ebenezer
were indentured
From Sydney the England went on to Japan and from there to Portland, Oregon. John Horne had been counting the days until the expiry of his indenture; the moment they put into port he gave his notice and left the ship behind, while Ebenezer followed the next day. Together they made their way to Utah to join their new Mormon brethren, full of hope for the future and giddy with excitement about what lay ahead. Optimistically, the nineteen-year-old John wrote to Caroline Owen to tell her he would soon be a wealthy man and to ask her formally to be his bride.

On arriving in Salt Lake City John Horne and Ebenezer were welcomed as new converts and their skills assessed. The two were called into Brigham Young's office in the center of the shining new city and interviewed by the leader of the church himself. Young saw use for their seaman's knot-tying skills in the construction of a new temple being raised in St George, and bid them go down to the `Cotton Mission' being established in the southwestern corner of the state.

St George was an early outpost of Mormondom in Utah's South, founded as part of Brigham Young's ambitious scheme to form a self-reliant community of Mormons who could exist outside the reach of the rest of the United States. Salt Lake City was green and pleasant despite its salty plains, but the area lacked essentials that would bind them forever through trade to non-Mormon `gentiles'.

In the late 1850s Young had visited the Mormons' sparse Indian Mission in Santa Clara on the Virgin River and tucked away in his mind the possibilities of loamy soil and arid heat in the area. Some years later he hatched a plan to grow cotton in Utah's `Dixie' when initial efforts to mine iron from the southern Utah hills failed. In 1861 he called together 309 Mormon families, all of hardy stock and loyal disposition, and sent them south to scrape a city into the inhospitable desert landscape along the Virgin. In order for the colony to survive Young knew they would need a powerful symbol of their faith to cling to; St George, he decreed, would boast the first Mormon temple to be completed in the new Zion of Utah.

Utah's "Dixie," near Santa Clara on the Virgin River
It took three years after the St George temple was begun for the foundation alone to be completed. The swampy valley ground and crumbling sandstone hills made setting the foundation a near-impossible task which only extraordinary amounts of sheer willpower and back-breaking labor could overcome. As it happened John and Ebenezer arrived in Utah as the walls were finally beginning to rise, and just as the complex knots and pulleys they'd used aboard ship would be most critical. Their expertise would prove invaluable in completing the temple's construction.

Not long after their arrival in St George John and Ebenezer made the acquaintance of a fellow seaman, a wind-beaten, bearded Saint by the name of George Jarvis. George and his wife, Ann Prior Jarvis, had converted in England in 1848 and they and their young children had traveled across the ocean to join their brethren. The Jarvises were among those Saints who had made the difficult trek from New England to Salt Lake City almost entirely on foot. In 1861 George and Ann had answered a new call, this time to Utah’s Dixie.
George Jarvis, an old sailor

Ann Prior Jarvis, his much-loved wife
George Jarvis and Ann Prior were a fascinating couple; they had fallen in love at first sight at a party in London in 1845 and married just a few months later, he a gangly young seaman and she a cheery-faced, delightfully plump girl of sixteen. Queen Victoria had been crowned less than a decade earlier and was a great heroine of Ann's; family legend says that the resemblance between young Ann and the young Queen was often remarked on.

When Ann was fifteen her mother Catherine took her aside and entreated her to stop speaking so openly about her admiration for Queen Victoria, remarking mysteriously that they were more closely related than anyone could know. Catherine then confessed that her husband had learned in his mother's dying breath that he was the son of Edward Augustus Hanover, Duke of Kent and father of the queen, in whose household his young mother Elizabeth McDonald had been employed for a time before being sent away in disgrace after falling with child. William had died years before, as had the duke, so no proof of the connection could be obtained. Ann's mother spoke regretfully of being treated ``very ill" by the current queen, who was determined to erase all memory of her father's numerous indiscretions. Ann, however, was so enamored by the idea of the queen's being her half-aunt that she clung delightedly to the idea and tried even harder to emulate her. Years later she named her second daughter Victoria Josephine and informed the young girl that royalty was in her blood, if only she would live up to it.

John Horne Miles’ first meeting with the Jarvis family is recorded in Mary Miles Kleinman's record of the Jarvis family history, titled The Essence of Faith. In it she writes, ``Ebenezer DeFriez and John Horne Miles became regular guests at the Jarvis home, joining in with the others who frequently gathered there to visit and sing."

When Ann Prior Jarvis enquired whether John was searching for a wife among the local girls he spoke feelingly of his ```fine beauty’" Caroline in London, proclaiming that he ``was not free." But as time went on and no word from Caroline arrived, he began to change his tune. In language typical of his famed grandiosity he declared to the Jarvises: ```I submit that Caroline has probably become espoused to some wealthy ass, probably a lord; no miserable chimney sweep for someone with Caroline's pulchritude. Though I'll wager that if she is lucky enough to see me again, she'll rue the day she married that opulent greenhorn.’”

While working on the temple John boarded with a widow and her two teenaged daughters, Emily and Julia Spencer. The girls exuded youth and health, and perhaps most importantly possessed the advantage of bearing little resemblance to Caroline. Where Caroline was delicate and prim, the sisters were ruddy and kindly-faced; where Caroline was fair they were dark. Caroline's hair was frequently styled into a curling blond halo around her head, whileas Emily and Julia pulled theirs back into simple chignons more suited to hard work and a desert climate. Time passed, and he was charmed by the girls' innocent faith and dedication to the new Church as well as intrigued by their openness to the gospel of plural marriage, which had been officially sanctioned by Church leaders in 1852. Not long after abandoning hope of a reply from Caroline he persuaded both the Spencer sisters to be his brides.

Emily Spencer
Julia Spencer
As the temple neared completion another obstacle arose when the beautiful baptismal font arrived at last from Salt Lake City. It consisted of an enormous iron bowl that was to be seated on the backs of twelve cast-iron oxen, a room-sized full-body spiritual bath. The bowl alone was shipped in six pieces and on arrival was found to weigh no less than nine tons. How to lift the massive vessel onto the backs of the iron oxen was a puzzle indeed, and concerned citizens sent to Salt Lake City for extra manpower. 

St George's baptismal font on the backs
 of iron oxen
In the meantime the old sailor George Jarvis felt that the task was a manageable one; he had lifted just as much weight with fewer men over docks in China and London. He submitted a proposal to the city leaders and enlisted John Horne Miles, Ebenezer DeFriez, Ebenezer's brother Charles, and a fourth sailor named Thomas Crane to man the system of pulleys he devised. Most of the town showed up to witness the feat, their eager chatter for a time drowning out Jarvis' instructions. At last the townspeople were silenced and watched in awe as Jarvis directed the four men using precise maritime language to lift the nine-ton bowl effortlessly onto the backs of the waiting oxen. Applause erupted the minute the font settled onto the oxen, the accomplishment considered a minor miracle by those who saw it. The sailors were hailed as heroes, and for years afterward the five men would puff up their chests with pride whenever the majestic baptismal font was mentioned.

St George temple under construction
John’s idyllic life with the Saints would be interrupted, however, by his call to serve a mission to England once the temple was completed in 1876. He finished his long circuit around the globe as a missionary of the new faith, at last arriving on his aged father's doorstep only to find the older man near death. In anticipation of the Red Lion passing out of family hands, John H.W. Miles had sold it and purchased a pub in Surrey called the George. As a final gesture of reconciliation he left all his money and property -- a large inheritance -- to his eldest son. On his deathbed he revealed to the young man the existence of his second family, and entreated his heir to assist both his legitimate and illegitimate families with the funds.


John Horne was stunned to learn of his four half-siblings. After his father's funeral he made his way to the center of London where he met with Jane Mary Wyatt and the four Wyatt children. He moved them to better lodgings at once and endeared himself to all of them, assuring them that they would receive the protection of their father's name and family. He also preached to them of the Mormon faith and found little resistance to their conversion. In a letter to his mission headquarters in London he reported: ``Yesterday I had the inestimable blessing and privilege of baptizing my three youngest brothers and sister, together with their mother; they will be only too glad to gather with me to the Zion of our God when I return. I am happy to say that the disposal of my father's estate nears completion.”

John also visited Caroline Owen and was astonished to hear that she had written to him of her acceptance of his offer of marriage but that the letter had never arrived. In what must have been a painful conversation he was forced to admit to her that he had become engaged to not one, but two other ladies during their estrangement.

Shocked but still in love, Caroline agreed to convert to Mormonism and follow him to Utah under the condition that he sever his engagements to Emily and Julia. He refused to break his promise to the young ladies. Forced to concede, Caroline capitulated on that point but insisted on being his first wife, with the Spencer sisters to come second to her in rank. He agreed to her condition and they, along with Jane Mary Wyatt and her four children, began the long journey to Utah.

So it was with the grandiose, self-assured John Horne Miles that 12-year-old George Edmond Miles and his family placed their trust. They arrived in Utah in 1878, making the trip across the sea and the eastern states in relative comfort but finishing with a rough 318 mile, 14-day journey from Salt Lake City to St George by mule-drawn wagon.

As soon as they arrived John set about planning his weddings, but to his dismay found that the Church would not allow him to marry a younger woman as his first wife; Emily, as the eldest, must come first. When Caroline learned of the church president's decision she protested against the position into which she was being ensnared. Faced with the unpleasant alternatives before her: to return to England alone, make her way in the States as an unmarried woman or marry the man she still loved, she crumbled. ``I will marry you," she snarled at John in the church president's office, ``but I will either poison or kill you afterwards.”

John's solution to Caroline's jealousy was to marry Emily in the morning and Caroline in the afternoon, only revealing that he had married Emily that morning by bringing her to Caroline's wedding reception and introducing her there as his wife. It was at the reception, then, that Caroline's frustration with John reached its breaking point; enraged, she commanded Emily to vacate the piano stool where she sat only to have John come to his first wife's defense. In answer Caroline walked straight over to Emily and slapped her across the face. When John moved to chastise her, she spat: ``If you don't shut up I'll slap you too" and left the reception forthwith.

A dramatic scene ensued, ostensibly involving John Horne chasing poor Caroline around her bedroom. At last she escaped, broken-hearted and spitting mad, to plead with authorities to save her from her husband. The state court convicted John of bigamy with scarcely-contained glee, but he appealed the verdict at once. So began the federal case of the United States vs John H. Miles, a well-publicized trial of outlandish and sensational Mormon practices.


Throughout the ordeal John begged Caroline to drop charges against him. Multiple accounts testify to the fact that Caroline was ever the first lady of his heart even if he had married Emily before her; in the court records it is noted that ``after the arrest, but before indictment, he promised to give up the other woman and make Miss Owen his first and only wife, if only she would come back to him," but she refused under any circumstance to return to his side.


The trial was a sensation across the country, its sordid facts revisited in each appellate court. One transcript hedged around the issue of consummation, with Caroline questioned as a witness about the extent of her relations with John on the night of their wedding. She stated that she was in her bed when he came to her room, and that he stayed there all night despite her objections.

``How much did you object?" the judge enquired.

``I wish you could have been there to have seen how much," Carrie answered.

To this the judge drolly replied: ``I wish I had too."

Ultimately John Horne was found not guilty by virtue of the fact that his first bride, Emily Spencer Miles, could not be located to testify to her marriage -- this was the standard evasion used by Saints cornered in polygamy cases.

Julia refused to marry John after the debacle, but Emily bore him eleven children. Years later their granddaughter lamented the outcome, stating that ``[Grandma Emily] knew [Grandpa] John had never stopped loving Caroline; all his life he loved Caroline. After she'd borne him all those children, Grandma awoke one night and John was talking to Caroline in his sleep. Next day he was mean as hell with Grandma. He didn't love Grandma and she knew it.”

Emily Spencer in later life
As for Caroline, she returned to the East Coast and settled into life as a single woman in Washington D.C. She passionately fought against Mormon interests, speaking before crowds of the horror of her experience and the unjustness of the Mormon way of life when it came to the rights of women. In her mid thirties she married a divorced man fifteen years her senior. She bore Thomas Widdecombe two sons but died two weeks after the second was born, likely of childbed fever.

John Horne Miles in his teaching years


Despite the upset of his younger years, John settled into life in southern Utah and managed to install himself as a respected citizen of the county. He also succeeded in avoiding manual labor for the rest of his life, working and advertising himself as a teacher who had attended ``Eaton" college -- his claim was one final dastardly move, as few of his countrified pupils would have realized he did not attend the homonymous Eton. He lived a long but thenceforth unremarkable life, and died in 1925 at the age of 71.

Coming soon - "Is that your own hair, or do you wear a switch?" - or, the courtship of George Edmond Miles

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